For parents of under‑threes who feel like flatmates.

TimTim gives you ten minutes a week to feel like a couple again.

Become one of our first couples Coming soon to the App Store.
TimTim home screen for a couple, Emma and Jack: the Weekly Check-in card, I Need to Vent, Say Something Important, Question of the Day, Date of the Week and their shared home.

Sound familiar?

  • You talk all day, but only about naps, nappies and whose turn it is.
  • One of you is quietly keeping track of everything, and it's starting to show.
  • The same argument keeps coming back, and neither of you has the energy to finish it.

Nothing is broken. You've simply run out of time for each other. TimTim is built for exactly this stage.

How it works

We haven't invented anything magic. We've picked a handful of simple habits that couples therapists often suggest and many couples already use, and made them easy to do and easy to stick with. What matters most isn't doing something big. It's doing small, meaningful things together, week after week. TimTim keeps track of what you've each done, and if you miss a week, you simply start again the next.

01

A weekend check-in for two

Each of you answers a few short questions about the week, on your own. TimTim reads both answers and gives you one shared summary, including what you're asking of each other.

02

Vent, then say it calmly

Cross at 11pm? Write it down as it is. TimTim helps you turn it into words your partner can actually hear, and it only reaches them if you choose to share it.

03

A question a day

One small question to talk about once the baby's asleep.

04

Date nights at home

Ideas for an evening in, without a babysitter. You both swipe, and TimTim shows you the ones you both said yes to.

05

Your renovation team of two

It all comes together in a small weekly game, in which the two of you run TimTim, a little team of renovators.

Each week there's a new home that needs some love. What you do in TimTim earns bricks, and the bricks go into fixing it up, brick by brick. You can choose the new look together.

An illustrated family home with a freshly fixed charcoal roof, a front porch, flower beds and a garden deck with string lights.

A first look inside

These are early designs. Some of what you see is still being built, so the app may change before it launches.

Weekly Check-in, question 2 of 5: When were you a great team this week? Emma is writing her answer; Jack has already finished.
Weekly Check-in. You each answer on your own. Once you've both finished, TimTim gives you one shared summary.
I Need to Vent: an angry note written as it is, and a calmer version of it to send to Jack.
I Need to Vent. Write it as it is. TimTim suggests a calmer way to say it. If you choose to send it, your partner sees only the calmer version.
The couple's illustrated home with a worn-out roof and a button to fix it.
Your home. It starts out a little worn, and the bricks you earn in TimTim go into restoring it.
The same home with a new charcoal roof.
Chosen together. When part of the home needs fixing, like this roof, you can choose the new look together.

One AI that hears both of you

When people ask AI about their relationship, they usually do it alone, in a chat that only ever hears one side. TimTim reads what both of you say. It isn't there to pick a winner. It's there to help you meet in the middle.

Private by design

  • What you write just for yourself is visible only to you.
  • No ads, and we never sell your data.
  • If something you write when you vent suggests you may not be safe, TimTim doesn't pass it on and shows you where to get help instead.

Read our privacy policy.

Tim and Timofey at home, both in sunglasses. Tim with his wife and their son Timofey, close together outdoors in warm sunshine. Tim with his wife and Timofey on a rug by the Christmas tree. A selfie of Tim and Timofey at home, both looking very serious.

Who's behind TimTim

Hi, I'm Tim Ahmadullin, a young dad. I've always loved children and always wanted a family of my own.

When our son Timofey was born, there were suddenly two Tims in the house. That's where the name TimTim comes from.

Now I know first-hand what a family, and especially a couple, goes through when a baby arrives. I've come to see it as one of the hardest stages of life. So I'm building something to help parents through it, drawing on what we've learnt ourselves and on what I've read.

I believe a happy family starts with happy parents: two people who are still happy as a couple.

Want to try it first?

We're looking for our first couples with a child under three. Drop us a line and we'll get you set up.

hello@timtimapp.com